Monthly Archives: July 2014

Easier said than done….(advice requested)

I write this from a state of confusion. All the while feeling extremely indecisive and trudging or possibly drowning in uncharted waters. RECAP: My roommate is my former Husband. I use the phrase former Husband because “ex husband” to me, … Continue reading

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Judgy Judgerton

Judging people. Yuck! People judging me, double yuck. First I want to tell on myself….yes, let’s get that out of the way. I judge people, I do. However, typically I see someone or something and try and figure out they’re … Continue reading

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Vulnerable [vuhl-ner-uh-buhl] 1. capable of or susceptible to being wounded or hurt, as a weapon: a vulnerable part of the body 2. open to moral attack, criticism, temptation, etc.: an argument vulnerable to refutation; H s vulnerable to bribery 3. … Continue reading

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To love you, I need to first love me….

In my ongoing discovery of self, I have recently come to a very important realization. I’m consistently busying my mind and soul with other peoples issues. The result of this is that I have forgotten about ME. An analogy was … Continue reading

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A milestone of sorts….

Today is the fourth of July. Today I celebrate not only Independence Day for our magnificent country but also independence from active addiction. It’s another milestone for me and although it’s an incredible accomplishment, I dare not let it boost … Continue reading

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My big sister AJ…

Growing up my big sister (by 20 months), AJ had all the confidence in the world. She didn’t seem to care or notice if she was the prettiest, skinniest, funniest or most adored person in the room. She expressed herself, … Continue reading

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Originally posted on Oldest Daughter & Red Headed Sister:
? Hey, Sister Hiya, Sis Whatcha doin’ Nothing really, just wanted to run something past you. Do you have a minute? Of course, are you writing again? Yes, it has been…

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